My wife and I often remark sarcastically about the little “coincidences”
God orchestrates in our lives. One dictionary defines coincidence as, “a
remarkable concurrence of events or circumstances without apparent causal
connection.” As a synonym the dictionary offers “providence.” This strikes
nearer the truth I am getting at. Because I believe in a sovereign God, there
really is nothing that happens by coincidence, at least not in the sense the
term is usually applied. Divine “Providence” is always behind every “coincidence.”
By way of illustration, let me describe a coincidence that
happened today. I was reading an article in Christianity
Today by Russel Moore in which he recommends the writings of Frederick Buechner
(Pronounced Beek-ner), a twentieth century theologian/essayist/novelist. Moore,
being a staunch conservative is quick to say that Buechner is not typically
read by such as he, but that he finds much to recommend, if with careful
discernment. Moore suggests that an overriding theme in Buechner is that every
life has a plot, meaning that if we want to understand ourselves and get some
meaning from life, we should notice the everyday trivialities that form the
warp and woof of living.
Coinciding with this thought from Moore/Buechner, I happened
to read Charles Spurgeon’s devotional thought for this morning. Spurgeon drew
his ideas from Colossians
1 where Paul explains his calling to the Gentiles by saying, “To them God
chose to make known how great among the Gentiles are the riches of the glory of
this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory. Him we proclaim,
warning everyone and teaching everyone with all wisdom, that we may present
everyone mature in Christ.” That we will one day be “mature in Christ” is the happy
reminder Spurgeon leaves with his readers.
In the confluence of these coincidental readings I find the
assurance that all the things that happen to believers, the good, the bad, and
the ugly, “work together for our good,” as Paul
said elsewhere. The end result of this working together according to Paul
is, “to be conformed to the image of his Son.” In other words, the plot of
every believer’s life is the working out of sometimes painful, sometimes
beautiful incidents that piece by piece write the story of our being made in
Christ’s image.
Finally, the backdrop in my life story into which this
confluence falls is this: a very dear friend of mine made his way from this
life into Glory last week. He was a young man, not that age matters, who had
spent the last dozen years in a wheelchair. A fanatic hunter, he had fallen
from a tree stand and become paralyzed from the waist down. We all watched as
he saw his twin girls grow into teens, and his wife spend herself in his care.
To those of us in the little body of Christ where they worshiped, it was a
story of struggle and commitment where no one seemed to lose faith in God’s “providence.”
Then the plot thickened: he got cancer; it was terminal. He
died. One could scream how unfair this all seems. His wife and daughters must
now soldier on with this plot twist as part of their stories. Someone once said
that the trials of life either make us better or bitter. I have lost a niece, a
sister and my father in unfortunate circumstances, but none compare to what
these three young women now face. They have no chance to erase the painful
past; they have a choice to make something of it in their future. Bitter or better;
broken or stronger.
A few years ago, I wrote a poem that these coincidences have
brought to mind. I share it in closing:
Life is a symphony played on your heart
Memories are instruments set to a tone
Harsh ones and gentle ones all have a part
Each keeping time with a voice of its own.
Sometimes the string section brings you to tears
Mellow and soft, yet humming with pain
Notes that repeat themselves years into years
Drumming like drops in a seven-day rain.
Sometimes the piccolo sparkles with laughter
Giggling gayly on some sunny shore
Sparkling notes leave you smiling long after
Wistfully sighing and wishing for more.
The brass will play marches that strut through your mind
Recalling the flags and the uniformed bands
Honor and duty and pride all unwind
In an uplifted cheer and a clap of the hands.
And so it will go with you day after day
Music will come to you bidden or not
Make good of the moment for soon it will play
And the music you’re writing is all that you’ve got.