Half a century ago when I was studying civics (a subject
missing from curricula today), I learned that the three branches of the
government were intended to be check and balance operations. The executive was
to enforce the laws made by the legislative assuming they passed muster with
the judicial. The reigning force in all this was to be the United States Constitution.
In the final analysis we were to be a people ruled by law. The beauty of it was
that we the people made the laws or changed the laws as the Constitution
allowed and circumstances dictated. Respect for the Constitution has dwindled
under the pressure of so-called dynamic interpretation which allows for
rewriting or ignoring the very document that is supposed to govern.
Our nation’s founders borrowed the idea of being governed by
law from Moses. God gave a specific set of laws to His people, Israel. The laws
were presented as behaviors that were necessary for a person to be accepted by
God. They were couched in religious language, but they were ultimately
practical, defining the safest and most civil way to live in society. They were
all about respect: respect for God above all else; respect for life itself; respect
for authority; respect for all fellow humans; respect for livestock; respect
for foreigners and slaves. The most intimate aspects of human interaction were
covered, often focusing on sexual and parental relations.
Quite a few years ago I realized that one of the keys
reasons God created male and female representatives who were to populate the
earth through intimate contact was to build a solid foundation for social
structure. The loving intimacy of the marital bond was to be the glue that held
society together. The father-mother-child triad is the basic building block of society.
This helps to explain the large number of laws governing marital and family
relationships. For thousands of years, nations grew from on the
family-clan-tribe roots ordained by God.
Because of the natural propensity toward sin, these
structures did not often result in the respect God intended. To my amazement I
see that the tribes descending from Esau and Ishmael still disrespect the
tribes of Israel. Feuds almost as ancient are evident in the Serbo/Croatian,
Hutu/Tutsi, Sino/Indian and Irish/English conflicts of recent history. Throughout
history, failure to respect the opinions or cultures of others lies at the
heart of most of the battles we fight whether personal or national. What’s
missing is respect.
For the last one hundred years or so, respect has been
draining from the tank of American values. I have written
previously that the decoupling of procreation from sex made possible in the
1960’s by ready availability and reliability of birth control hastened the
disrespect for traditional marriage.
I have also suggested that the insidious unrelenting pressure from gay
rights activists made it possible for society to redefine marriage itself, removing
the God-given male/female element. Sociologist may debate the necessity of two
genders in marriage, but anyone who respects the ordinance of God can see the
fault in same-sex unions.
Another forbidden fruit that fell from the tree of social
upheaval in the last century is disrespect for authority. The beatniks and
hippies of my youth set the stage for the careless attitudes we now see a couple
generations later. Growing up in the 1950’s and 60’s, I became the last
generation to experience almost universal firm parental control and serious
consequences for disobedience. I attempted with my children to carry forward the
discipline I had experienced, but many of my peers did not. Societal pressures
tugged at all the Gen-X parents, causing many of them to abandon firm parental
discipline. I saw the result of that in my classrooms where students showed an alarming
disrespect for teachers, fellow students, and property in general. Parents who
were called in to discuss their child’s misbehavior often defended them against
the authority of the school.
The sixth commandment sets the stage for societal respect:
honor your father and mother. Families built on respect for authority should
raise children who will carry the banner forward. However, even in Christian
homes today, this is not always the case. Believing parents too often succumb
to the societal pressure to allow children to have their own way. Another
worldly pressure, consumerism, has pushed many families to require two incomes,
abandoning their children to whatever structures the community provides. Unless
they are fortunate enough to have Christian day-care and Christian schools,
secular attitudes will inevitably be formed in their children.
The Apostle Paul warned Timothy that in the last days,
respect would disappear from society. Whether or not these are the last days
Paul spoke of, his predictions have come to pass. I cannot change our culture
and bring back respect and common courtesy. Neither can you. However, if we
could convince our churches to stand up and claim their right to influence the
culture, we could hope to gain back some of the lost ground.
According
to George Barna, the percentage of practicing Christians in America in 2020
dropped by half in the previous twenty years. Of those who dropped out, half
quit believing altogether and the rest quit “practicing.” Other polls indicate
that many who left are disillusioned because the church seems irrelevant. Perhaps
taking on the challenge of making the world a better place would seem relevant
to those who have given up on church. I am not talking about the “social gospel”
of the 1960’s. I am talking about being light in a dark world – the stated
purpose of the church according to its founder. We need to put flesh on the
part of the “Lord’s Prayer” that says, “Thy will be done; thy kingdom come on
earth as it is in heaven. (For more see “Bringing
the Kingdom.”)
I know I am harping on an old saw again, but there is something
else we can do that doesn’t involve long-term effort: vote wisely. The Barna
poll I referenced has the following encouraging statement: “While the decline
of Christian engagement is real, the data remind us that one-quarter of the
population qualifies as a practicing Christian. This represents more than 80
million adults—a level of churchgoing that is a statistical outlier among
affluent and educated societies.” In other words, we the (Christian) people
have the power to shape our government. I am not advocating a theocracy as some
detractors claim. I am recommending a return to the Judeo-Christian roots of
our country – roots that grow from the Mosaic law that demands respect. That is
the cure for the pandemic of disrespect we now suffer.
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