Saturday, November 8, 2025

Be Careful How You Pray

Seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto thee. (Matthew 6:33)

In my last post, I drew from this well-known verse from the Sermon on the Mount saying that we must seek God above all else. My devotional reading by A. W. Tozer this morning has this cautionary note: “Whoever seeks other objects and not God is on his own; he may obtain those objects if he is able, but he will never have God…. The first and greatest commandment is to love God with every power of our entire being. Where love like that exists, there can be no place for a second object.” (A. W. Tozer and Gerald B. Smith, Evenings with Tozer: Daily Devotional Readings,Chicago, IL: Moody Publishers, 2015, 335.)

I might have titled this piece “Be Careful How You Preach.” There is a strain of evangelical Christianity sometimes called the prosperity gospel. These people preach that if you have enough faith or the right kind of faith you can receive all the things you pray for. I see a couple things wrong with this. First, it puts too much emphasis on material things. The kingdom of heaven is not about getting material possessions; it is about getting God (Luke 12:15). Second, this attitude focusses so much on faith that it becomes a matter of having faith in “faith.” Biblical faith always has an object: God Himself not what He can provide.

I have always thought this attitude is a bit presumptuous, treating God like a celestial vending machine. As Tozer says, “[God] will not aid men in their selfish striving after personal gain. He will not help men to attain ends which, when attained, usurp the place He by every right should hold in their interest and affection.” The message of Matthew 6:33 is that the material things we might pray for, at least the necessities, are the promised result of seeking God first. The true prosperity as taught in the gospel is that we are freed from our sins (like materialism) and adopted by God.

I titled this peace as I did because it occurred to me when I read Tozer that the error of the prosperity gospel can slip into my prayers if I am not careful. Many years ago, Jesus’ statement in Mark 11:24 was brought to my attention. In the King James it says, “What things soever ye desire, when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them..” At the time, this was presented to me in the context of the prosperity gospel. It sounds pretty simple: pray for something and you will receive it as long as you believe. I struggled with that for years, especially when my prayers did not yield the desired result.

At some point in my study, I discovered that the KJV doesn’t properly translate the verb “receive.” A more accurate reading is, “Whatever you pray and ask for, believe that you have received it, and it will be done for you.” In the Greek text, the verb “receive” is in the aorist tense which should be translated as an action completed in the past. In other words, you must be so confident in your request that it is a done deal in your mind. I am reminded of Jesus telling His disciples that, “Whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven.” A more accurate translation is, “Whatever you have bound (aorist tense) on earth will have been bound (perfect passive tense) in heaven.” This means the action of the disciple has already been accomplished in heaven. The disciple is simply bringing God’s will in heaven to earth. That sounds familiar: “May your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.”

That attitude implies an intimate knowledge of God’s will. I can always pray with confidence when I know I am asking God to accomplish His will on earth. I am reminded of what Graham Cooke said in Crafted Prayer; we often pray right out of the gate for something without first seeking to know God’s will in the situation. My wife, Karen, and I had a harsh lesson on this recently. She was struck suddenly with intense pain from sciatica. Naturally, we began to pray for relief; it didn’t come until the Spirit reminded me of this verse in Hebrews: “Now all discipline seems for the moment not to be joyful but painful, but later it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness for those who are trained by it.”

I asked Karen what righteous fruit God might be wanting to grow in us. After prayerful consideration she realized that she was not fully trusting God to handle our present situation. She confessed her failure, leaned completely on God, and the pain relented. We also learned about a treatment for sciatica from our daughter, and Karen had her doctor prescribe it for her. We are thanking God for both the natural and supernatural healing He has brought. I wonder if we had thought about the principle from Hebrews earlier if Karen would not have had to suffer for twenty-one days.

I believe the key to effective prayer is very subtle. It is no surprise that our perfect example is found in Jesus’ prayer in the garden the night before He was to face incredible pain and disgrace: “Not my will but yours be done,” He said to His Father. He had prayed previously that the Father might find an alternative to His suffering, but He ultimately left the situation in God’s hands. We also have Job’s response to the test he endured: “Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him.” It is not wrong to pray for things; Jesus gives us license to pray for anything “in [His] name.” That is the same as saying “in the Father’s will.” The key is whether our prayer is for the thing or the Father’s will regarding the thing.

Prayers of solicitation and intercession are a wonderful privilege we have as followers of Jesus. While I believe God hears all our prayers, He is not obligated to answer any that fall outside of His sovereign will. If we are uncertain about God’s will in a situation, we have the blessed promise Paul records in Romans: “The Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness. For example, we don’t know what God wants us to pray for. But the Holy Spirit prays for us with groanings that cannot be expressed in words.” I believe this is part of what it means to “pray in the Spirit.” We may come to a point where all we can say echoes Ezekiel: “O Lord God, Thou knowest.” This is not an abandonment of our privilege to pray; it is the surrender of our will to God’s will in prayer. Truthfully, there is no more careful, effective way to pray.

 Related Posts: The Problem of Unanswered Prayer; In Jesus’ Name; A Prayer Primer

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