Most translations of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 use adjectives to express what love is. Paul used verbs in his original Greek. The English teacher in me sees this as a significant difference. Paul didn’t just describe what love is; he detailed what love does. This fits perfectly with his theme throughout his writing, as well as all Scripture, that actions display intentions. If I say I intend to wash my car, but never get the hose and bucket out, my intention is meaningless. If I say I have love, Paul says, but never do loving things, my love is meaningless. Worthless.
This is some of what Paul says love does in 1 Corinthians
13: 4-7:
1. Love perseveres. It hangs in there no matter how tough
the going gets. If there is a desired behavior or circumstance one is hoping
for, the one who loves waits patiently. My wife loves me so much that she
waited patiently (for years) for me to figure out what it means to be a good
husband. She didn’t stop loving me; she persevered. (Her perseverance paid off;
I’m still not perfect, but through God’s grace and her loving patience, I am
much better than I used to be.)
2. Love does the useful thing. Most versions translate
Paul’s word as “love is kind.” The root of the Greek word he used is
serviceable. That means that to love is to do what is necessary or needed in
any situation. My wife had back surgery recently, and she is in a long process
of healing. Out of my love for her, I have been doing things that she needs
done but cannot do for herself. It would be very unkind of me to sit around and
let the dishes pile up in the sink. She cannot stand long enough to wash them;
I can.
3. Love does not brag or become self-important. A loving
Christian understands what
Paul said to the Corinthians, “What do you have that you did not receive?
But if indeed you received it, why do you boast as if you did not
receive it?” I don’t go around boasting about my ability as a teacher and
writer. My main spiritual gift is teaching, and that is clearly
a gift from God. The fact that I learned to write well is a combination of
my natural talents (God given) and years of education and experience (ordained
by God).
4. In that same vein, love is not self-serving. As with all
spiritual gifts, mine is not given to me for my benefit. My gift is to be used for
the benefit of the body of Christ. If you read 1 Corinthians 12-14 you will
see that the church was making their individual gifts a matter of personal
pride. Chapter 12 ends with Paul’s corrective: let love be the most important
factor governing the exercise of spiritual gifts.
5. Love does not provoke another or keep an account of
wrongs. My wife could have written a book of all the things I did wrong in our
early marriage. If she had kept reminding me of them it certainly would have
provoked me; one of my problems was pride, and if she had suggested that I was
not the perfect husband, had she listed all the ways I failed her, it would not
have made for a happy moment. Because she loved me with the love of God, she
bit her tongue. I would offer this caution: sins borne must be forgiven and
laid at Jesus’ feet or they will fester into a root of bitterness. Again, love
is the antidote to bitterness.
6. Love does not rejoice at wrongdoing but rejoices at the
truth. Truth is that which matches God’s design; wrongdoing is that which
ignores God’s design. Sin is simply that which brings chaos whereas right
living brings peace. A perfect example of this is what has happened in America
with the chaos of sexual perversion that is being rejoiced over by some. Some
are glad that the traditional family is being destroyed in favor of “alternative
lifestyles.” They even think that such destruction is a loving thing; they call
their opponents hateful. Hello Chaos.
7. Love anticipates good things. Back to my wife: she spent
years anticipating my discovery of what a good husband should be like. She
hoped I would learn to love her as
Christ loved the church. She bore up under the disappointment I caused.
This kind of love is what makes it possible to love our fellow Christians
despite their unchristian behavior. Church is messy; look at the Corinthians.
Someone said that church would be a fine thing if it were not for the people in
it. We know that in the resurrection, we will all be glorified; until then we
live in anticipation.
The prophet Jeremiah
was given a message for the people of Judah: “I am Yahweh, showing loyal
love, justice, and righteousness on the earth, for in these things I delight, declares
Yahweh.” If we would be pleasing to God, we must be doing the right things, the
things He has modeled for us. Jesus
said that love for one another would be the hallmark of His disciples. Jesus
was love personified. We
are predestined to become like Jesus. Jesus lived love perfectly. He demonstrated
that love is a verb. So, in the words of that famous advertisement: just do it.
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